As I sat at the beach I started writing this. I was sitting in a beach chair, with my hat on, eyes closed, just listening to the waves crash against the shore. Now, I know I am very fortunate, but at that moment I never felt more grateful. There are serious problems in the world today, I was worried about what to get at the Beach Club for lunch. I was also fortunate enough to watch Beth kick some serious butt at tennis, in what turned out to be a 3 hour and 15 minute, easily the longest match in Sea Oaks history. As I sat upstairs at the tennis house, I got to meet all of the ladies of the neighborhood. Every one of them telling me how nice my mother in law is. It's true. I always knew this, but couldn't believe how every single person she has come across couldn't say enough good things about her. I clearly have the best mother in law on the planet, who created the best husband this girl could ask for. We clearly have it made.
I know in everyday life you can get caught up in this inner poor me battle. Comparing your life to everyone's life around you. I do this all of the time. It's a horrible cycle. Sometimes you just can't understand why people, who aren't good people, can have so much and you try to give so much to others and feel that you have so little. After sitting at the beach last weekend I realized I have so much more than any of those people even know they are missing. My grandma had this philosophy on life, and I don't think I truly could understand it until that moment. Yes, we want to be in a place at some point where we can give our kids everything we have been given. We want to pay it forward, because we have been able to do so many things. But, I don't think they would even know the difference. If we are able to pass on the kind of love our families have, they are going to have more than most people on the planet. And that, my friends, is a life worth striving for!
Here are a couple pictures from our trip:
The Williams family never misses a good Happy Hour! We spent Friday night down on the patio at the beach club, meeting people from all over the country who get to spend their winters here. Of course we did this with a Cape Codder in hand! It was an absolutely amazing weekend full of family, fun and plenty of rum!
Tell me...what are you thankful for this week?